Entry Number One

I think that something is changing. Those internal shifts that occur are sometimes barely perceptible, easy to miss. Then one day you turn around and nothing looks quite the same as it used to. My last entry on my last website was all about the online world that I’ve...

I Love You Men

Here’s a topic that ought to have got some coverage on this site long before now. My entry about Marc got me to thinking. People sometimes ask me how I cope with living in Wanaka as a gay man. Largely they know that it’s not a homophobic town, so they are...

Did you ever lose someone?

I don’t mean lose in the sense that someone dies. It’s not as big as that, but neither do I mean in the Wildean, “To lose two parents..” sense, I mean (well, now that I think of it, maybe I was, indeed, careless) the sense where you really...

Racing, This Time…

In 2002 I competed in the triathlon in the Gay Games in Sydney. It’s almost beyond my comprehension that it’s now 2006 and the Gay Games are being held in Chicago (or Montreal, depending on your gay politics). The exprience was amazing for me, I trained...